A blog by a woman who simply can't make relationships work, so instead of wallowing in self-pity, she decided to explore singleness with some humour and honesty.
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Okay... I know I've stated this before, but let me add the pre-cursor that I know a lot of married people aren't this way... BUT... this is one of my biggest pet peeves. I am tired of married people telling me that it isn't all roses and rainbows.... I KNOW it will be hard work, but trust me, it is a LOT easier to have your life mate walk beside you in things than to do it all alone. And the other big pet peeve is when they tell me about that friend who didn't find her husband until she was 50 or 60 (I got the 60 story tonight at a school event). STOP telling me that stuff. It doesn't encourage me. I am not into waiting that long to start that part of my life. I know that I am supposed to wait on God's timing, and I am trying, but stories like that are so not encouraging. It's annoying and MEAN!! Easy to say that there is plenty of time when you have already started your life...