Monday, November 2, 2009

Date 2

So date 2 finally did happen and it was great. We did talk a lot about the silence and how bothersome it is to women in general and me in specifics. I promised to try and be more patient and he promised to try and be more communicative. Hopefully, there will be a third date... he is away for 3 weeks on business, so I'll update you when the time comes... still looking for and loving advice from all my lovely readers and friends.

6 comments:

  1. I have no advice for you, I'm so inexperienced at this dating thing but I'm just writing to wish you good luck!

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  2. Am impressed that there was a second date and so glad to hear you were very honest about the lack of communication. Good luck and keep us posted if/when there is a 3rd date!

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  3. Thanks Amar... I need lots of that too. He travels a lot for work, so it is frustrating to deal with his lack of communication in all of that. *sigh* I am ready to be in love, to move forward and have that life with someone but I am really struggling with the whole dating thing. Would love to be like Khloe Kardashian... meet the ONE and marry him within a month.

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  4. Travel is no excuse for lack of communication - we ARE in the age of Blackberry's, laptops..etc,...if you REALLY want to talk to someone, you find a moment and a way...

    Think about it!! You are already frustrated with stuff and you haven;t even had date #3 - don't you deserve more? I mean, shouldn't a relationship start out of giddy positivity - already this guy has stood you up...made you question and wonder about yourself..(which is just silly because you're great..). Take a long look at this guy and this situation - are you sure this is exactly what you want?

    Oakley

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  5. Oakley... I am NEVER sure of what I want. hahaha. I really like the guy and things have gotten a lot better. Date 2 was a lot of conversation about dealing with this lack of communication on his part and we are trying to both find ways to compromise.
    I agree about travel not being an excuse and it isn't his excuse... he is bad with it here or away... that's the issue. I did tell him that I expect and deserve better and he agreed and has made some good efforts.
    I guess what I want is to be loved and to be allowed to love and this is an opportunity I am not ready to just throw away just yet. There is something about this guy that won't let me do that... I've tossed away plenty of other opportunities lately, but for some reason, just can't do it with this one... *sigh* you can talk sense into me when we hang out in NEW ORLEANS!!!!!

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  6. You have more sense than me...lol...I just want you to be happy, and to be happy by having all you deserve PLUS a little extra!! There is something to be said for a giving a person a chance - just make sure it's on YOUR terms...that's one good thing about being single - you can set the expectations and take the time to find what you really want!!

    Oakley

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